To find beauty in the eye of the beholder. If you want to feel more feminine or sexy, the way to do it is to start appreciating the body you've got. If your mindset toward your body is negative, no change of appearance will ever eliminate that! If you think it will, you end up chasing an illusion. When you are in the habit of always finding fault with your body, you will never run out of faults to find... indeed, you'll only find more and more as you get older. It's a trap, and changing your body won't get you out of it -- the one thing that will is to change the fault-finding way of treating yourself. If I treated you that way, I'd be intolerable... so why treat yourself that way?